My Divorce

Note: This is my second time writing this out. Initially I was going to replace the first with this one, but for legacy’s sake, I’ll keep both of them up….

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Jackpot

You’ve probably heard the saying before. “Close, but no cigar.” There’s another one you may have also heard of, “Almost doesn’t count, except for horseshoes and hand grenades.” They’re both…

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Bushido

Above image: A famous samurai warrior-poet, Miyamoto Musashi. Imagine, you’re about to have a conversation with your partner about your relationship. There’s something you’ve been meaning to bring up with…

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Living Large by Living Small

One thing I’ve learned from Shelter-In-Place, is that it’s the quality of my relationships, not the quantity, that has my life be fulfilling. Let me illustrate. The first few months…

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Built to Last

I used to play a lot of city management games when I was young. They’ve taught me a lot of different things: What the term “infrastructure” really means, and how…

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