Built to Last
I used to play a lot of city management games when I was young. They’ve taught me a lot of different things: What the term “infrastructure” really means, and how…
Read MoreForgiveness
Content Warning: mentions of parental abuse. If you’re sensitive to these topics, please feel free to skip reading this blog. What usually comes to mind when the word “forgiveness” is…
Read MoreFeelings Follow Actions
Let me tell you about a saying that I used a lot when I first started coaching: “Feelings follow actions, not the other way around.” To illustrate this, I use…
Read More“Everything that’s going to be great starts out pretty terrible.”
Let me share something with you that comes to mind every once in a while: “Everything that’s going to be great starts out pretty terrible.” You know who said it?…
Read MorePolyamory Success Skills #1: Self-Awareness
When people ask me about polyamory and what it takes to be successful at it, there’s a certain set of skills that come to mind. Actually, these skills are imperative…
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