Polyamory vs Cheating

Today’s blog is inspired by a certain situation I encounter fairly frequently (nearly every single day). I noticed myself giving the same advice over and over, so I decided to…

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How to Be an Agent of Change

We all see those inspirational quotes and posters, commanding us to “Take charge of your life!” or some such, with a photo of a silhouette of someone on a mountain…

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Paradox of Desire

There was a saying that I heard when I was in my early twenties. I don’t know where it came from, but I attribute it to Buddhism. It went something…

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Jackpot

You’ve probably heard the saying before. “Close, but no cigar.” There’s another one you may have also heard of, “Almost doesn’t count, except for horseshoes and hand grenades.” They’re both…

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Bushido

Above image: A famous samurai warrior-poet, Miyamoto Musashi. Imagine, you’re about to have a conversation with your partner about your relationship. There’s something you’ve been meaning to bring up with…

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